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A very dear friend of mine sent me this quote. It’s by the Pope. It’s been reverberating in my mind for so long now I don’t quite comprehend why. However, it is quite disturbing to think that you are nothing but the quality of your dreams. Just think about it. You are nothing. But. The … More You are nothing but the quality of your dreams

A while back I was on Pinterest of which I am such a big fun, pinning away. Then I ran in to this idea of writing letters to someone that start with open when. At the time it sounded like such a brilliant idea I actually wrote the letters to a friend. Open when you … More Lost in procrastination

I must say that I am honestly not surprised by the outcome of this election. This has been what has happening in my country for the longest time. People go for an election and vote in  a nut case of a leader. There is a concept of vote for the lesser evil but America has … More Hillary and Donald Trump

  I occasionally like to reflect on what I am doing consciously. Thinking that my research project was supposed to be due today but since my supervisor is not there I will not suffer the consequences of my instant gratification monkey (it is the reason why we procrastinate). Loving: Loving myself and all the deliciously deep quotes that are on … More Taking stock

I turned 21 exactly a month ago. I have this lesson and here it is: Nobody told me that there will come a day when you will just melt down and want to sit and have a good cry and you will not even have the answer to why you feel the way you do. … More Nobody told me

I am getting old now even though I’m tempted to put laughing faces right in front of the I am getting old. I could have easily said I’m aging like fine wine. Or I’m aging gracefully… but to be honest I can’t really put a finger on it. All I know is that I’m in … More 28 days to my 21st Birthday 

Today I was talking to a friend. Well a few friends and we were discussing the issue with girls in Malawi being  by having sex with men who are mostly HIV positive as a means of purification to them. As we were talking with him I could see the disgust on his face. He was … More Feminism

I’m trying to build content for this dear blog. The reason being that normally I will journal.  I recently got my heart broken as would be the norm for an ENFP like me. I’m still very in love so I have decided that every time I get the urge to text him I’ll write a … More .Daily journal 

What is unconditional love? Is it possible ? Is it an illusion  or a fragment of our unrealistic expectations. Are we capable of loving someone without conditions. I have grappled with that question. Imagine a scenario where you’re in a relationship and you know truly and deeply that there are sacrifices you’re willing to make … More Unconditional love